Growing up, McKenna Chang valued spending time with her family. But as she’s gotten older, she’s found herself missing chances to bond with her parents and sister. “In the thick of the school year, it can be easy to be swept away by academics, extracurriculars, and friends,” she says. “I take my family for granted now, but once I’m off to college, things won’t be the same.”
How she’ll do it: McKenna’s goal is to do at least one family activity per day. “This could be anything from eating dinner, watching a movie, or playing a game together to taking a day trip to the beach,” says McKenna.
Staying on track: McKenna plans to document the time her family spends together by taking photos and videos on her phone. At the end of the summer, she’ll compile them into a short video.
Overcoming setbacks: McKenna knows that finding time every day that works for everyone might be tricky. To overcome that obstacle, she plans to make it easy for her family to spend the time they do have together. “For example, if we’re going to go on a family bike ride, I’ll pump our bike tires in advance,” she says. She also plans to help around the house so that her parents have more time to spend with her and her sister.
Expert advice: A goal can be tough to attain if it relies on other people. Fishbach says that if McKenna ends up missing a day or two of family time, she shouldn’t abandon her goal. Instead, she should focus on the progress she’s already made. “When we have setbacks, it’s better to look at the glass as half full,” Fishbach says. Staying positive will help McKenna feel motivated through the summer.